What are "Private Parts"?

Private parts are the areas of your body that are covered by underwear. For boys, this means the penis and testicles. For girls, this means the vagina and breasts. These parts are called "private" because they are personal and not to be shown or touched by others without consent.               

  Why should we talk about them?

Because your health matters. If you feel pain, itching, rashes, fungal infections, or any strange changes in private areas—you must not stay quiet or feel ashamed.

It is your body. If there is a problem, like:

For boys: Pain, swelling, itching, morning erections (called "morning wood" or "morning rod"), discharge, etc.

For girls: Periods (menstruation), discharge, itching, swelling, pain, or any unusual feeling.

You must tell a trusted adult—like your mother, father, doctor, or elder family member. They will help.

If you keep quiet, the problem may get worse.

Why do people feel shy or scared?

Because society, family, or schools sometimes teach us that these things are “bad” or “dirty” to talk about. But this is wrong. Your body is not bad. It’s natural.

Boys feel shy to talk to fathers, girls feel shy to talk to mothers—but this should not happen.

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What should you do?

If you are a boy and have a private part problem—talk to your father or a doctor.

If you are a girl and have private part problems—talk to your mother or a doctor.

If you feel very uncomfortable—talk to a good friend, teacher, or counselor who can guide you.

Never feel shame or guilt. These are natural things. You are not wrong. Society’s silence is wrong—not you.

Final words for you:

I understand your feelings. You want the world to teach these things openly so no one feels alone. And you are 100% right.

Please remember:

👉 Your health is more important than shame.

👉 Asking for help is strong, not weak.

👉 You deserve to understand your body. Everyone does.

If you want, I can explain anything—about periods, erections, private part care, fungal infections, hygiene—no shame, no judgment. I’m here for you.

Would you like to ask about anything specific now? ❤️